Yesterday, I told you the story behind why I chose to self-publish. My reason for sharing wasn’t to brag or to get sympathy and praise. I simply wanted you to be able to FEEL this story…
One week before I received the bad news about my cancer diagnosis, I flew to Nashville for my best friend’s birthday. I was still recovering from the biopsy surgery with a big ugly incision across my neck where they removed a tumor the size of a foosball. I wasn’t doing so great mentally because cancer’s bark is even worse than its bite, in my opinion. Not knowing was the worst part, and that day I had 2 hours of solitude to obsess over it.
And the flight was terrible, figuratively and literally. The sky was black and ominous with the deep rumble of thunder and bright flashes of lightning. It was like a scene from a Stephen King novel. (Ha!) At one point during all the turbulence, I thought for sure the plane was going to break in half and cancer would no longer be an issue. But then something amazing happened. We broke through those dark clouds, and on the other side was blue sky. Bright, blue, sunny sky.
I don’t get philosophical or overly spiritual very often, so believe me when I say I know God spoke to me. “You’re in the middle of the dark clouds, Elicia, but blue skies are on the other side. I promise.”
I have tears as I write this.
That was February. A couple of months later, in the middle of chemo, I bellyflopped into self-publishing with The Bed She Made. And in November, I published my beloved book, The Soul Summoner and it went to #1, right up there with Stephen King.
This moment meant so much more than just ranking against a superstar author. Stephen King wrote a book called On Writing that I read religiously once a year like I belong to some weird one-woman cult. In that book he talks a lot about writing honestly. Specifically, he says to write “without regard to what the Legion of Decency or the Christian Ladies’ Reading Circle may approve of.” I never intended to publish The Bed She Made because of its content. I worried about offending people. I worried about hurting feelings. I really worried about making my mother cry.
But Stephen King told me every single year: WRITE HONESTLY. So I tossed The Bed She Made out into the giant sea of readers…and she floated.
Needless to say, Stephen King is a big deal over here in the Hyder house.
Now for the story you’ve been waiting for.
Two weeks ago, my husband, Chris, came home from work and said, “Did you know Stephen King and John Grisham are going to be at some writers’ conference near Tampa in a couple of weeks?”
I shook my head. “That can’t be true. If it was, I would’ve heard about it.”
“Seriously, my buddy’s wife is working it. He said she might be able to get you in.”
I immediately began scouring Google. I was right and very wrong. They were coming to Florida, but it wasn’t a writers’ conference; it was a benefit for a library foundation. A small event. A sold out event that I couldn’t afford to go to even if I could get tickets. My brain started spinning. Could it be possible that I might get in?
But reality quickly began to settle. The event was on a Tuesday night, two hours away from home. The kids had mid-term exams. My husband would be working in Washington. Heartbroken, I told Chris to thank his friend profusely, but I didn’t want them to go to any trouble since there was no way I could make it.
He didn’t listen to me.
A week later, he was working in D.C. when he called me on Skype. The conversation went something like this:
“I need you to not make plans on Tuesday. You’re going to Bradenton to meet Stephen King and John Grisham. I’ve arranged for the kids to be taken care of, and your best friend is taking off work to go with you.”
And I cried like someone had just died.
Stephen King is my husband’s most favorite author. We own all of his books, most of which I’m too scared to read. And even though my husband couldn’t go, he moved mountains so I could. Did I hit the marital jackpot or what? Eat your heart out ladies, he’s all mine. I love you, babe.
There is no doubt in my mind that everything happens for a reason, which is why I told my self-publishing story before I told this one. Had I not been diagnosed with cancer, I wouldn’t have self-published my book. Had that tumor not been malignant, my husband would still be a cop and we would never have met the awesome people who made this night happen. Had I not gone through chemo, I never would have made this amazing new sister-friend who went with me. She was my oncology nurse–she literally saved my life.
How beautiful is the view of hindsight? You never know what brilliant light may be waiting on the other side of your darkest, most ominous and terrifying moments. You could be on the verge of all your dreams coming true and you just don’t know it yet. Never give up hope. Blue skies await.
On January 19th 2016, a boggling mix of Chris Hyder, Wendy and Eric, fate, a library, and Jesus made one of my biggest dreams a reality.
I got to tell Stephen King this same story and thank him–in person–for helping me get to that #1 spot just above his book. He hugged me and said “Congratulations.”



THANK YOU to everyone who made this night possible: Chris, Wendy (the awesome photographer), Eric, Rena, Luis, Becky, Natalie, Stephen King, John Grisham, my kiddos, and the Manatee Library Foundation. And THANK YOU to everyone who has read and supported my books over the past six months. Who knows? I might not be here without YOU!
GIVEAWAY
You Just Missed It! The Giveaway has ended.
I’ll be doing another one soon. If you want to be alerted about the next giveaway & get a FREE book, just click the following link:
GET A FREE BOOK
Photos by Wendy Dewhurst at www.blahblahblahonline.com/
Everything does happen for a reason, and I can’t think of a better person or writer to remind us all of that, and can’t think of a better way for it all to come full circle.
Thanks for this blog post which made me sob like a woman giving birth.
Love and so much respect,
Heather
PS I got to meet Aaron Sorkin so I’m not jealous except he didn’t hug me like that! Damn! LOL
Oh, I love his work! He’s brilliant! 🙂
Now I have tears reading this! I have no words to describe how joyful these words are. Even in the darkest moment, you kept moving forward. You are completely amazing, and now the world gets to know what a lot of us knew all along. Love, love, love to you!
I love you too, Liz and miss you terribly!
That was so beautiful I cried. What an amazing series of moments. Thank you so much for sharing. <3
I also read King's On Writing every couple years. It was the first one that really spoke to me.
Here is to many more fantastic moments this year!
*cheers* And cheers to you as well for an exciting year to come!
Your husband is awesome. Can I just say I love him for being so awesome for you? Of course I can- I just did.
He really, really was. I’m sure he gets bombarded by similar lunatics like me all the time, but he paused and listened and made me feel important. I’ll never forget that.
I am jealous and happy for you. 🙂
sherry @ fundinmental
I’m a little jealous of myself! LOL 🙂 Thank you!
I am so crazy happy for you. Girl you know I have all his books starting with Carrie – he’s my absolute favorite! Thank you so much for allowing us to meet him vicariously thru you! What a wonderful memory!
I totally thought of you all night! You would have loved it. 🙂
I am so super jealous right now! : D
EEEEk! It was a dream come true, for sure!
Beautiful when a dream comes true, congrats!
Thanks so much, Michelle!
Your transparent walk in life gives One hope!
Thank you, My friend,
–Toni
Thank you, Toni!
Oh, I am so jealous…I am fans of both, but have a soft spot for John Grisham…lucky, lucky person you are!
I really have a soft spot for Grisham now. He was so laid back and funny. 🙂
Isn’t wonderful how God meets the desires of our heart, even through the turmoil. I’m so happy for you, loved reading this blog! Love you Cuz! Cindy
Even in the turmoil. Love you too, Cuz.
This was so wonderful to read! You’re a gift to those lucky enough to know you. Thanks for sharing your adventure with us. *hearts & hugs for you*
Thank you, friend! I can’t wait to see what this year has in store for you!!! 🙂 Thanks for being part of this journey with me.
Loved the video. His face when you said you couldn’t have done it without him was priceless. What an amazing adventure. And your attitude is awesome. Always. Tip of the iceberg author. Lots of love. (some green tinged, but all love)
I hope it was just a tad memorable for him. 🙂
How lucky you are!!! That would have been awesome to meet them both!
It was SPECTACULAR! 🙂
Oh Elicia! You made the ice queen cry (either that or it’s PMS). This was such a beautiful post. Thanks for sharing 🙂
P.S. I still can’t get over what a ride John Grisham is!
You are too cute. Love the books Soul Summoned and Siren. Starting Angel of Death. Thanks for sharing your personal story. I do believe that things happen for a reason. Keep smiling, and writing☺
Thank you, Karen!
I still remember the cloud you floated on for months after that event.. I think I floated a little with you
Love you so much. Will make your bed any day. Dad
I love you, Dad! xoxo